3.19.2012

The HHS Birth Control Mandate

I have done a great deal more study of this and my position has evolved further. I could bore you for hours with all the things I have learned, so I will try to hit the high points and be as brief as possible.

First, here is the rational of the Department of Health and Human Services regarding the birth control mandate:
Scientists have abundant evidence that birth control has significant health benefits for women and their families, is documented to significantly reduce health costs, and is the most commonly taken drug in America by young and middle-aged women. This rule will provide women with greater access to contraception by requiring coverage and by prohibiting cost sharing.
This decision was made after very careful consideration, including the important concerns some have raised about religious liberty. I believe this proposal strikes the appropriate balance between respecting religious freedom and increasing access to important preventive services. The administration remains fully committed to its partnerships with faith-based organizations, which promote healthy communities and serve the common good. And this final rule will have no impact on the protections that existing conscience laws and regulations give to health care providers.
It is perceived not just by our government but by the current culture (and unfortunately many Lutherans) that birth control is a matter of "healthcare" that all women have a right to equal access. It is easy to see from the the government's perspective that they are simply protecting the rights the majority of Americans believe in. We as a church have contributed to this mistaken perspective. Even Rev. Harrison's February 14 letter refers to birth control as "medicine." Medicine is by definition "a compound or preparation used for the treatment or prevention of disease." If we refer to birth control as "medicine" then we are contributing to the assumption that it is of benefit to women's health.

It's hard to believe, but this is the world we live in, and the government we live under. Conservative efforts to overturn this mandate have already failed in the senate. I do not believe we have any realistic hope of reversing the trend of government limiting our religious liberties.

I was interested to read that a new Public Religion Research Institute poll released March 15—which was done in partnership with Religion News Service—found that a 56 percent of Americans do not believe that the right of religious liberty is being threatened in America today. Even worse, 57 percent of Catholics and 58 percent of independents polled specifically do not view this mandate as an infringement on religious liberty. I do not see how making more people aware of this mandate and telling them that we feel it is an intrusion on religious liberty is going to change public opinion. The only realistic effort to reverse this ruling has already failed in the senate. Nothing is going to change the current status of this issue, at least not before the next political election. However, if more people were made aware of the abortifacient nature of all these methods of birth control, perhaps at least those who are pro-life might change their minds about this mandate, not to mention changing their minds about their own use of these horrible drugs and devices.

In addition, most of our members do not understand the source and nature of religious liberty. Religious liberty is not something granted by the First Amendment. The Bill of Rights limited the powers of Congress, but not the states. States still had the right to establish religion well into the 1800s. Religious freedom has its proper locus in the inalienable rights spoken of in the Declaration of Independence, and in the writings of the founding fathers on the subject. While courts have come to define religious liberty according to the First Amendment through a misapplication of the Fourteenth Amendment, this is not the proper locus. In fact, it is not Congress, but rather the executive branch that has created this mandate. This opens a whole new discussion of the nature of religious freedom and the HHS mandate, not to mention its support in current federal judicial precedence.

Most people also do not understand that Christianity should not benefit from any "favored status" and that religious freedom has always been limited. These limits have been defined in various ways since the founding of our nation. The proper limits on religious liberty are why polygamy and Sharia law are still ruled illegal. Just as one does not have the freedom of speech to falsely yell "fire" in a crowded theater, religious rights end where the government perceives the public good is endangered.

This is why the root problem as I see it is that birth control is considered "medicine" that is an important part of women's "healthcare." I believe this belief is shared even by the majority of Lutherans. As such, it can be argued that the right to this supposed public good trumps religious liberty. In fact, the only thing the majority of Lutherans seem to be against is a couple methods they wrongly perceive are the only abortifacient drugs covered by this mandate. When people approve of all other hormonal birth control drugs, implants, injections, and IUDs, they are being hypocritical to point the finger at the government and at women who use post-coital birth control. As I hope I have made abundantly clear on this blog many times before, all prescribed birth control drugs and devices are abortifacient. Granted, most people are unaware of these facts and, therefore, their hypocrisy is unintentional. However, I would argue that the church and her members should take the log out of their own eye first before they can see clearly to criticize the government for this action.

I would argue that when Christians broke with the historic Biblical teaching against contraception and subsequently came to approve of birth control drugs and devices as "medicines" and "healthcare" for woman, they effectively lost the right to oppose any of these prescribed birth control methods for religious reasons.

C.P. Krauth taught that error first seeks tolerance, then it seeks equality, then it seeks dominance. Tolerance of birth control by Christians began with Anglicans in 1930 approving of birth control in very limited circumstances. By 1959, this included Lutherans, and now those who approve of birth control include even the majority of Roman Catholic laity. It took less than a century for tolerance in the church to lead to the dominance of a contraceptive mentality which inevitably gave birth to the right to abortion in our culture.

So, here is my current position on this question of publishing any statement on the HHS mandate. Before we as individuals or as congregations make any public statements about this, we need to further educate ourselves about religious liberty and both its proper and its current legal limitations. We need to better understand the "Two Kingdoms" and other theological issues. We all need to understand that, even in the absence of religious freedom, no one can ever force us to violate our conscience.

God's providence does not guarantee religious freedom. In fact, it has been a common "alien work" of God throughout history to allow persecution in order to bring us closer to God. Christianity has often flourished the most during times when the Church has faced her greatest persecutions. Our consciences belong to God and cannot be taken captive. They can jail us and even kill us, but they cannot take Christ from us or force us to act against our conscience.

I would also argue that, before making further comments in the public square, we also first need to clean our own house with regard to the horrible mistakes on the question of birth control that have been made by our synod, our church, and most of her members. Such errors and misconceptions have contributed greatly to our current predicament, as explained above. This will require the application of a great deal of patient, compassionate, and pastoral teaching on the scientific and theological issues surrounding birth control - information that will inevitably weigh heavily on the consciences of many members.

How much easier it would be if all Christians had retained the belief that contraception is worse than murder, and that it's not our business to interfere with God's creative work at any point in the process.  Onan practiced contraception and was killed by God himself.  St. John Chrysostom admits the inability to even describe from a biblical standpoint what contraception is:
"Why do you sow where the field is eager to destroy the fruit, where there are medicines of sterility [oral contraceptives].... Indeed, it is something worse than murder, and I do not know what to call it; for she does not kill what is formed but prevents its formation. [Chrysostom, Homilies on Romans, 24 [A.D. 391]
Lord have mercy,

Erich

3.11.2012

Wickedness

One of my nieces, Evangelina, is third born to my sister and she has special needs. My sister and her husband knew while carrying her that this was the case. They are Christians. My sister has given birth to another niece of mine, Lisette, after having Lina..  Again, my sister and brother in law are Christians.  Thus far they have four girls.  I'm praying for more grandchildren for my mother; she has twelve so far from her three kids (four a piece).

 Now read the link and see the wickedness that resides in the hearts of men.  

It seems to me that both now and in the future, except for rare instances, the only children to be born with Down Syndrome (and many other maladies) will be born to Christians.  The rest will be killed.

Oh, and by the way, after you read the article, know that none of my kids like brushing their teeth and none of them have Down Syndrome.


2.29.2012

All thanks to God who gives us life

Rev. Mark Preus posted this on his Lutheran Hymn Revival blog
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
On Marriage: For Dr. Heidenreich

"I never translated a hymn Dr. Heidenreich asked me to translate, so I suppose this is my poor oblation instead."

Tune: Tallis' Canon.

Pr Preus has humbled me by bestowing on me this honor of which I am not worthy. I give thanks to God for the tremendous gifts He has bestowed on him and on Rev. Stephen Van Der Hoek, a friend in Australia, who subsequently wrote the following tune for the hymn, graciously dedicated to me as well.

3 What blessings come from woman's womb,
Through which our God did once assume
Our flesh and blood and sanctified
The life of every human child!

4 Forgive us if we go astray
And leave the one and narrow way;
Call us with words of comfort sure,
Which pardon sin and make us pure.

5 Grant that as Christ so loved his Bride
He gave himself for her and died,
To cleanse her from her sin and shame
And give to her His holy name,

6 So may each man of Christian faith
Cling kindly to his wife till death,
So that in every family
We see Your love's pure mystery.

7 Grant that as now the Church receives
The glory that her Savior gives,
As Sarah called her husband lord,
Let every wife embrace this word.

8 Let every man provide for them
Whom you have given unto him,
Give every mother strength and prayer
For those You put within her care.

9 Drive far from us adultery,
Lest we Your wrath and anger see,
Drive from our hearts all lusts perverse
That would Your pure design reverse.

10 Keep well our children chaste and pure,
And when the world and flesh allure,
Grant them repentance, guard their faith,
Return them to Your Spirit's bath.

11 And give to each a Christian spouse,
And keep Your Word within their house,
And if it be Your gracious will,
Their home with many children fill.

12 All thanks to God the Father, Son,
And Holy Spirit, Three in One,
To Him in whom we live and move
Be all our praise and all our love.

2.22.2012

Does the LCMS have a Position on Birth Control?

I'm not a huge fan of Lutherquest, but the following linked discussion has some excellent points and exchanges regarding whether or not there is a synodical position on this question.

Is Birth Control a Sin? 

For instance, the following comment is by Rev. Robert C. Baker, formerly senior editor of adult Bible studies at CPH, now teaching philosophy at Lindenwood University-Belleville (IL).
Thank you, Rev. McCain. Taking your advice, I contacted Rev. Joel Lehenbauer of the CTCR, who told me just moments ago that the Synod does not have an official position on contraception. The Human Sexuality Statement produced in 1981 was commended by the Synod for "study purposes." Dr. Lehenbauer also informs me that the CTCR is in the process of formulating a new statement given same-sex marriage, etc.
 
I wrote on this question myself a couple years ago here on this blog:

http://lutheransandcontraception.blogspot.com/2010/05/new-synodical-resolution-on-birth.html

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Resolution to Oppose the HHS Birth Control Mandate

I must give credit to Rev. Gifford Grobien for the majority of the text.  He was working on this resolution for his district and asked my input.  He agrees with all my alterations.   

We both agree that anyone should feel free to use this for their own congregation, circuit, or district:


Resolution to Oppose HHS Mandate on the Provision of Abortifacient Drugs and IUDs

Whereas, the Holy Scriptures testify that the human person is made in the image of God, and thereby prohibits every kind of murder (Genesis 1:26-27; Genesis 9:6; Exodus 20:13; Matthew 5:21-22; James 3:9-10); and

Whereas, according to God’s good order, human life is created and conceived by the union of man and woman (Genesis 1:27-28; Genesis 2:18-24; Genesis 4:1); and

Whereas, science describes the beginning of human life as fertilization, that is, the formation of a human embryo, a unique human being, which exists prior to implantation[1]; and

Whereas, all hormonal and IUD forms of birth control include as part of their published physiological mechanism for preventing pregnancy the potential inhibition of an embryo’s implantation in the uterus, thereby causing the death of the embryo, and the drug Ulipristal (Ella®) also has the potential of destroying an embryo after implantation, thus directly causing an abortion[2]; and

Whereas, the United States Department of Health and Human Services has mandated virtually all health insurance programs, including those serving or managed by the Christian church, to provide sterilization, hormonal birth control drugs and IUDs; and

Whereas, while Christians are called to obey political authorities (Romans 13:1-7), when human authority violates God’s will, Christians are bound to “obey God rather than men” (Acts 5:28-29); and

Whereas, the doctrine of the two kingdoms does not promote quietism, but affirms that civil government is to be concerned with things other than the gospel and should not exercise its authority in the church (CA XXVIII.11-12), and commands the Christian to use political laws and public redress for the benefit of temporal life (Ap XVI); and

Whereas, the aforementioned HHS mandate does not comply even with United States law, which prohibits the Federal government from establishing religion or preventing the free exercise of religion (The Constitution of the United States, Amendment 1); be it therefore

Resolved, that the _______ District of the Lutheran Church—Missouri Synod in convention express its opposition to the HHS mandate; and be it further

Resolved, that the President of the _______ District of the LCMS formally petition the Congressional Delegation from _______ to oppose this mandate and to introduce and/or support legislation prohibiting it; and be it further

Resolved, that the laity and church workers of the congregations of the _______ District be encouraged in the opposition of this mandate, also by requesting their congressional representatives and other government office-holders to use all means to oppose and/or overturn this mandate.
________________________________

[1] LCMS Sanctity of Human Life Committee, “Response to Resolution 6-10: Guidance on Contraceptive Methods” n.d., http://www.lcms.org/page.aspx?pid=864 (Accessed February 20, 2012), 3; Maureen Condic, “A Biological Definition of the Human Embryo,” chapter 11 in Persons, Moral Worth, and Embryos: A Critical Analysis of Pro-Choice Arguments, ed. Stephan Napier (Springer Science+Business Media, 2011).

[2] 2 LCMS Sanctity of Human Life Committee, “Response to Resolution 6-10”; Walter I. Larimore and Joseph B. Stanford, “Postfertilization Effects of Oral Contraceptives and Their Relationship to Informed Consent” Arch Fam Med 9 (February 2000): 126-133 www.polycarp.org/larimore_stanford.pdf; Donna J. Harrison and James G. Mitroka, “Defining Reality: The Potential Role of Pharmacists in Assessing the Impact of Progesterone Receptor Modulators and Misoprostol in Reproductive Health,” The Annals of Pharmacotherapy 45 (January 2011), http://www.theannals.com/content/45/1/115.full.pdf+html.

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The HHS Birth Control Mandate and Abortifacients

I have great respect and admiration for our synodical president Rev. Matthew Harrison's bold defense of our religious liberties.  It is my prayer that Pastor Harrison will now be just as bold and fearless in the further communications I hope he will address to the pastors and churches of the Missouri Synod about the abortifacient nature of all hormonal, chemical, and IUD methods of birth control.

Education on this abortifacient issue was the very purpose of the 2004 synodical resolution to which the LCM Sanctity of Human Life Committee published its 2009 report "Resolution 6-10: Guidance on Contraceptive Methods"  - a report issued when Rev. Harrison was director of LCMS World Relief and Human Care.

Res. 6-10 as passed in synod convention called on the Board for Human Care Ministries to “review the various birth control products” and clarify which act sometimes or all the time as “abortifacients” – products that may destroy an embryo or prevent its implantation in the uterine wall. The resolution, adopted 955-52, noted that some products are mislabeled as contraceptives. Delegates asked that the board make this information available to pastors and members of LCMS congregations. The Board for Human Care Ministries charged the Sanctity of Human Life Committee with this task. This is a unique opportunity to draw attention to this report according to its intended purpose, and I fervently pray that this opportunity is not missed.

I ask you to join me in both urging President Harrison, and praying to our Heavenly Father, that in an effort to lead this ongoing discussion, President Harrison will now make further official statements to encourage the pastors and churches of our beloved synod to take this wonderful opportunity to collectively educate their congregations with the Sanctity of Human Life Committee's report on abortifacients, so that the full extent of the pro-life issue not remain hidden beneath the important religious liberty discussion which makes this such a unique opportunity.

Lord, in your mercy, hear our prayer.

6 Reasons Why Contraception is Sinful

http://cantuar.blogspot.com/2012/02/6-reasons-why-contraception-is-sinful.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+taylormarshall+%28Canterbury+Tales+by+Taylor+Marshall%29

I believe this is very well written. I would only add to his natural law argument that NFP is also contrary to nature, as it requires abstaining from sexual relations at the very point that God has designed the human body (both male and female) to most desire the coming together of husband and wife - the fertile period of the woman.

11.07.2011

Oh, Jesus Christ! How Bright and Fair

A beautiful hymn praising God for the gift of children.

http://sword-in-hat.blogspot.com/2008/06/oh-jesus-christ-how-bright-and-fair.html

Note especially these verses:

5. O wife! the Lord has chosen you
That from your womb shall life anew
Increase the Church and build it
This wondrous work forever mounts,
The mighty word His lips pronounce:
What here you see, shall yield it
Handsome
Shall come,
Sons and daughters
To the waters
Of Salvation
Finding grace and good vocation.

6. Be of good cheer, for this decree
Is not a human father's plea:
Our Heav'nly Father gave it,
Who loves us through the coming days
And who, when grief upon us weighs,
Will give us strength to brave it;
Blest end
He'll send,
As we're doing
And pursuing,
Or conceiving,
Wise and happy children giving.

11.03.2011

LCMS President Matt Harrison on "Be Fruitful and Multiply"

For those of you who did not have time to watch the video posted below, I have transcribed President Harrison's comments about the Missouri Synod's dismal birth rate and the divine ordinance "Be fruitful and multiply."
There are three things that are really hitting the Missouri Synod as much as anything.  We're doing, I mean we're doing better than a lot of churches of course.  But we've had a continuous slow decline over the last 50-40 years.  I think 30 years ago was the last recorded yearly increase in our membership.  Forty years ago, says Larry.  That's all right, he'll, as he becomes president and becomes more and more of a fundraiser he'll become less and less of a historian.  [Laughter]  The biggest challenge we face is the birthrate.  The birthrate of the Missouri Synod that is overwhelmingly white, descendent of European people in this synod - the birthrate of our church body has simply followed, mirrored, the broader birthrate of the United States among descendants of northern Europeans.  That's a fact.  There's hardly a single family out there that you're related to that has more children in the latest generation than it did in the previous generation.  Now, do I expect any wholesale turnaround in this phenomenon?  No, I don't.  There are all kinds of intense pressures upon us.  However, I think it's time for us to preach "Be fruitful and multiply."  That's what the Bible says.  And we ought to encourage young people and families who have the ability to have families.  And encourage them.  The church needs to be a place...  It's no time to despise family ministries.  It's no time to despise those kind of diakonic efforts in the church to care for marriages and families, etc.  It's time to redouble our efforts in those areas and it's time to speak clearly that it's a good thing to have a large Lutheran orthodox family.  If Muslims are having an average of 4.2 children a piece and we're having 2.1 children a piece, I would say God would be really happy if we'd bump it up to at least 4.2 per family.  Don't quote me on that.  [Laughter]

Pres. Matthew Harrison, ACNA-LCMS Open Forum, CTS Fort Wayne, Oct. 27, 2011.
The second issue he mentioned was the attrition rate with our youth and children, and the third was missions - specifically the need for church planting.

Lutheran Witness: "Be Fruitful and Multiply"

In his monthly Lutheran Witness article, President Harrison writes:

"Our LCMS birth rate mirrors that of the broader population of the U.S., which is at an all-time low.  So, how do we best encourage our young people to treasure marriage and have children?  How do we make the point in a freeing Gospel-oriented way?  How do we encourage those capable of having more children to do so?  How do we take concrete action in our congregations to care for children and encourage the adoption option?  "Be fruitful and multiply" (Gen. 1:28).  It can be a God-pleasing act to have a large, loving, orthodox Lutheran family, and those who are able should not be diverted from this by any self-imposed "green" limit of 2.1 children per couple."

11.01.2011

WELS college president poses the procreation question

At a recent symposium on Lutheran schools, Rev. Mark Zarling (president of Martin Luther College) drew attention to the declining birthrate of his synod (Wisconsin) as well as others (Missouri and ELS). His data is drawn largely from a demographic study compiled by Dr. Ryan MacPherson, an ELS church historian. Zarling’s essay does not offer a definitive conclusion, but he does call for the church to examine its teaching and practice on the matter of procreation: “Has the Church watered down the Biblical testimony about the blessing of children, about the Lord as the author of life, about purpose and contentment in living a life of service to the Lord Jesus by serving another soul?” May the conversation Zarling has begun in the Wisconsin Synod continue, and may it bear fruit.

Here is an extended excerpt from Zarling’s paper (footnotes are omitted; most of them refer to MacPherson’s study):



You and I are concerned about the growth of the communion of saints, not the visible growth of an outward organization. At the same time, careful shepherds entrusted with flocks dare not overlook those statistics as a blessing from God that forces us to evaluate and analyze and PRAY. And as we turn over the data to expose some underlying causes, any minister of the gospel will be shocked at the realization that the worldview of death has infiltrated the homes and minds of so many people, including precious souls entrusted to our care.

Dr. Ryan MacPherson, a professor at Bethany Lutheran College, helps us to move the stones of the statistics around.92 His demographic study of the ELS showed a dramatic drop in birth rate during the history of that synod, from a birth rate of 3.77% in 1928 to a birth rate of 1.87% in 2008.93 Evidently other Lutherans also imbibed from the worldview that fewer children is better. The LCMS birth rate in 1961-2002 went from 3.34% to 1.33%, prompting a Missouri pastor to write, “Our church body has been complicit in its own demise by not emphasizing God's plan for procreation in marriage. We’re contracepting ourselves out of business.”94

Another partner in the old synodical conference had a similar history which resulted in a birth rate of 1.76% in the decade from 1999 through 2008.95 We WELSers are that partner.

Why such a precipitous drop in birth rates? Look at any population map and you will see birth rates plunging below replacement population in many continents. But why so among Christians, among people of the Word who believe children are precious gifts from God? They are taught that Sons are a heritage from the LORD, children a reward from him. Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are sons born in one’s youth. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them.96 Has the dominant cultural worldview convinced many people that an empty quiver allows one to substitute a heavier backpack of stuff for earthly life's brief journey?

One factor MacPherson identifies for this drop in birthrates is a thorny and emotional issue for many.97 I remember vividly the sometimes heated discussions in our dorm debates after a dog class that had any allusion to birth control. I commend to the reader MacPherson‟s study where he documents a clear shift among Lutheran theologians from equating birth control with sin to leaving it an open question and a matter of Christian freedom.98 His study gave me pause. Has the Church watered down the Biblical testimony about the blessing of children, about the Lord as the author of life, about purpose and contentment in living a life of service to the Lord Jesus by serving another soul? Neither time nor space allows us to explore other components of a culture of death in our country: abortion statistics that numb the mind;99 the crescendo of voices that raise the issue of euthanasia to the fore, whether discussing the terminally ill, or the weak and infirm, or simply the burden on society that a severely disabled person supposedly presents.


In an explanatory footnote (n. 97), Zarling calls for further introspection:



MacPherson outlines three possible causes for such declining rates among Lutheran bodies. First, the trend toward delaying marriage is identified. As more and more young adults aspire to college education, and then even a master’s degree, marriage and family are often postponed. Of special interest to this writer is an observation that MacPherson gleans from reading the work of Allan Carlson. “Today, college students typically graduate with tens of thousands of dollars in loan debt. The unanticipated consequences of this method for funding higher education become especially evident when we consider its effects on family formation, notably marriage and childbearing. Specifically, people assuming student loan debt tend to marry later, delay childbearing longer, and have fewer children during their lifetime.” Last May, 78.2% of the graduates from MLC graduated with debt. The average indebtedness was $22,176. This is of grave concern to me. Do we then unintentionally force our graduates into marriage and family decisions that don’t reflect the Bible’s priorities or a fourth petition attitude? Or have we unintentionally proclaimed a message to our students that the blessing of training to serve the Lord in gospel ministry is a greater or more important goal than the blessing of having and rearing children?
Thank you, President Zarling, for asking these soul-searching questions. May a renewed study of the pertinent Scripture passages bless your synod with a deeper appreciation for God's gift of children. And may the parents and pastors in your synod teach their little ones what a privilege it is to be made the children of God through Christ Jesus our Lord!

LCMS President Matt Harrison says "Be Fruitful and Multiply"

Set the little ball at the bottom of this youtube video at 9 minutes and 20 seconds into this video and listen to President Matt Harrison recommend giving heed to the divine command to "Be fruitful and Multiply" and have large families in the LCMS.

10.10.2011

The Church is Fruitful for Christ

He Her Honour and She His Glory
by Pastor Vernon S. Grieger, 1994, pages 107-109 & 120:

THE CHURCH IS FRUITFUL FOR CHRIST

"It is most obvious that the Church as the Bride of Christ, is not to remain sterile and unproductive, but is to be fruitful for Christ her Lord. This was taken for granted from the very beginning. Already before his atoning death and resurrection, when there were only relatively few disciples, Christ sent them out to proclaim his Word and gather others into the kingdom of God. Before his ascension into heaven Christ again gave his disciples the great commission to go out into all the world and make disciples of all nations, “baptising them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you.” (Matthew 28:19f.). The church heeded this command and through the preaching of the Word, thousands were soon added to the Church (cp. Acts 2:41, 47). The apostles and numerous other Christians took the Gospel to all parts of the then-known world so that the Church grew and multiplied greatly. Throughout history the true Church has always been a missionary Church, intent on spreading the Gospel, calling people into the Kingdom of God, and nourishing them in the faith.

"In a similar way it is God’s intention that marriage, is not to be sterile but fruitful in the sense that a couple are to have children, and multiply. Already soon after their creation, the Lord blessed Adam and Eve, and said to them, “Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth.” (Genesis 1:28). Just as the Church is to multiply because of her relationship with Christ her Lord, so the wife, because of her relationship with her husband is to be fruitful and bring forth children. This is to be seen also as a great blessing (cp. Ps. 127:3-5). The trend of so many modern couples to avoid having children, and to regard it as a cross or an affliction is quite unbiblical. Ultimately it is the result of a misguided selfishness. Of course the presence of children in the family limits the freedom of the couple in certain ways, but it also brings great joys and blessings that nothing else can bring. To be a girl is easy enough, if you are born that way.  It takes no effort at all, and is certainly no accomplishment. To be truly feminine is a charming art that does take some effort, but is admired by all. To be a successful wife requires special tenderness and loving self-surrender, but is the glory of womanhood. But to be a devoted mother is the ultimate achievement of woman that makes her a blessing that will live in the hearts of her children all their life, and which ultimately shapes the nation. While it does admittedly require effort and patience to be a good mother, this is what we need to become truly mature and understanding people. Children are meant to put us through the mill, and to try us in numerous ways. It is this agitation and friction that finally polishes us to become glorious gems that sparkle and radiate understanding and tenderness. It produces a beauty and glory in woman of the deepest and most lasting nature. It is her family and motherhood that truly perfect a woman and bring her to her ultimate glory, and in doing so also bring true honour to her husband.  A woman who has selfishly avoided having children in her most glamorous years, may think she has an advantage, but when she is older, and ceases to be an attraction to those around her, especially if her husband dies, she will find that she has few friends that mean much to her and that life is not rewarding, as she must sit alone in her house, no longer loved and cared about. The mother of a well-managed family, on the other hand, will find that there are new joys, and precious highlights in her life right through to the end, as her children marry, and present her with one grandchild after another.  She becomes the dear, understanding and gracious queen mother that is the center of devotion and admiration for so many.

...DOES MARRIAGE AFFECT THE CHURCH?

..."It would not be at all surprising if there is a mysterious connection between all the various imperfections and faults in marriage, and corresponding faults and problems in the church or congregation.  This is not the place to spell this out, but it may not be an unrelated coincidence that the decline in growth and missionary zeal of the church coincides roughly with a time in which the mind-set of the majority of members was toward very small families or zero population growth.  The fruitlessness of marriage may possibly carry over into the church or congregation."

[From the back cover:  "Marriage, as instituted by God, is intended to be a picture of the relationship between Christ and his Bride the Church. This is the archetype from which our marriage is derived. The proper guide to marriage is therefore its archetype - the relationship between Christ and his Church. The true remedy for all marriage problems, therefore, begins with a proper study of the relationship between Christ and his Church, and is a careful attempt to apply that to man and woman in marriage. ...Pastor Vernon S. Grieger is in the active ministry of the Australian Evangelical Lutheran Church.  He is the author of the book Earthly Images of the Heavenly Bride, dealing with the role of women in the Church.  Together with his wife, Joyce, he enjoyed a rich and blessed marriage with a family of seven children."]

9.06.2011

150 children

Here is science/choice/sin run amok. You can see some comment here.

One does not even know where to begin.

6.14.2011

The "Christian wife and mother"

Susan Fenimore Cooper, daughter of James and an accomplished author in her own right, whispers this bit of sanity to those who would hear:
"A word more on the subject of home life, as one in which the interests of the whole sex are most closely involved. It is clear that those interests are manifold, highly important to the welfare of the race, unceasing in their recurrence, urgent and imperative in their nature, requiring for their successful development such devotion of time, labor, strength, thought, feeling, that they must necessarily leave but little leisure to the person who faithfully discharges them. The comfort, health, peace, temper, recreation, general welfare, intellectual, moral, and religious training of a family make up, indeed, a charge of the very highest dignity, and one which must tax to the utmost every faculty of the individual to whom it is entrusted. The commander of a regiment at the head of his men, the member of Congress in his seat, the judge on his bench, scarcely holds a position so important, so truly honorable, as that of the intelligent, devoted, faithful American wife and mother, wisely governing her household. And what are the interests of the merchant, the manufacturer, the banker, the broker, the speculator, the selfish politician, when compared with those confided to the Christian wife and mother? They are too often simply contemptible--a wretched, feverish, maddening struggle to pile up lucre, which is any thing but clean. Where is the superior merit of such a life, that we should hanker after it, when placed beside that of the loving, unselfish, Christian wife and mother--the wife, standing at her husband's side, to cheer, to aid, to strengthen, to console, to counsel, amidst the trials of life; the mother, patiently, painfully, and prayerfully cultivating every higher faculty of her children for worthy action through time and eternity?"
While Miss Cooper's handling of the subject hits rather bluntly upon our modern sensibilities, her essay, Female Suffrage: A Letter to the Christian Women of America, is worth a perusal. Find it here.